It seems to me that if there was one idea that I wish everyone could be impressed with, it would be this: the only thing - and I mean the only thing - anyone in this world deserves is non-existence.
I, myself, have been impressed with this idea more and more recently. It is an idea that I have been familiar with for a long time, but for some reason, it seems to be hitting home a lot more in recent times. And I think that if people in this world could just come to recognize this truth, there would be a lot more gratitude and a lot less anger.
We wouldn't have people feeling entitled to everything. We wouldn't have greedy Wall Street bankers or angry protesters who want their hides. We wouldn't have people feeling as though the world is owed to them. We wouldn't have divorce. We wouldn't have Middle East conflicts.
This is because all of us would realize that anything beneficial that happens to come our way is simply "icing on the cake." It's a bonus. It's the cherry on top. The only thing we truly deserve is non-existence.
There are two very basic tenets of scripture that are foundational to this reality. They come from two passages in Romans that are frequently cited but not often milked for all their beauty. The first is Romans 3:23, "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." The second, of course, is three chapters later, "For the wages of sin is death." The word for "wage" literally means "payment" or "compensation." It is that which a person earns on the basis of the work he or she has done. Thus, it is what he or she "deserves."
Of course, the work that every single human being has done is "sin." I prefer to put it in much more "PC" language: sin is the act of being selfish - which no human being can deny is an intrinsic part of our human fabric. In fact, I would argue that it is not only a "part" of our human fabric, it is the very core from which all our actions flow.
Thus, in light of the fact that we are all saturated with sin and fall into its snares every day, the only thing that any of us deserve - the only thing we are truly entitled to and should be the rightful recipients of - is death and non-existence. In fact, the human race should not even have continued to exist beyond Adam and Eve's infamous fall.
Ellen White puts it this way: "The inheritance of children is that of sin. Sin has separated them from God . . . As related to the first Adam, men receive from him nothing but guilt and the sentence of death" (9MR, p. 236).
This is our rightful lot.
Yet we are still here.
And this is the reality that all of us need to recognize, grapple with, understand, and appreciate. We should not exist right now, but we do. We deserve death, punishment, non-existence. But instead we have all been given life.
As Ellen White states elsewhere, "To the death of Christ we owe even this earthly life. The bread we eat is the purchase of His broken body. The water we drink is bought by His spilled blood. Never one, saint or sinner, eats his daily food, but he is nourished by the body and the blood of Christ. The cross of Calvary is stamped on every loaf. It is reflected in every water spring" (The Desire of Ages, p. 660).
This is further supplemented by what she goes onto say in the next sentence of the first quote I shared, "But Christ steps in and passes over the ground where Adam fell, enduring every test in man's behalf. He redeems Adam's disgraceful failure and fall by coming forth from the trial untarnished. This places man on vantage ground with God" (9MR, p. 236). It must be noted that the term "vantage ground" means "a position or place that gives one an advantage."
Though this concept may seem overly simplistic, I think that recognizing it has tremendous implications for my every day life. In full disclosure, I don't know how many times in my own marriage and family life I think I am entitled and deserve better treatment or greater benefits that I am simply not receiving. After watching my kids for two hours, I feel frustrated when my wife wants to have me watch them a little longer so she can go for a walk, or take a shower, or do anything other than watch them. "But I've just watched them for two hours," I think to myself, "I deserve to have a little peace and quiet now."
This reality has implications for politics and the economy as well. We would find a lot less corporate greed and political jealousy. We wouldn't have teachers going on strike or unions demanding their "rights." The only right that any of us deserve is death. Everything, absolutely everything, is a gift from God.
This means that my life would be defined a lot more by gratitude. To use a very simple analogy, by virtue of the sin I was born into and the sin I continuously participate in, my rightful inheritance should actually be millions of dollars of debt. Yet not only has Christ, by virtue of His death and taking on the debt, zeroed my account, He has actually left me with a positive balance that equals billions of dollars.
Thus, am I going to cry, and be greedy, if I don't receive a few extra dollars that I think other people owe me? Am I going to get angry when my cell phone carrier has been charging me too much for too long? Am I going to get upset when my bank charges me a $5 monthly fee to use my debit card? Am I going to feel slighted when a person does not give me proper recognition, as if I were thinking in my mind, "Do they know who I am?" Am I justified in feeling frustrated when a person withholds his or her affections from me, as if there was some inherit worthiness within myself that deserves their undying commitment? Do I get annoyed at the person who is taking forever at the cash register because he or she is using 500 coupons, and all I want to do is purchase my loaf of bread?
As I already said, receiving anything in life is simply a bonus, extra gravy, a blessing.
So when I look at the equation, it elicits a response of humility, gratitude, and appreciation. And I find myself living in the shadows of the constant tension between where I should be right now and where I actually am. And I realize that I can live with the little annoyances and frustrations because that is the reality (which is far too often passed over): I am living.
And finding the balance between the two tensions causes me to live a life of faith - "I once was lost, but now I'm found."